Dear Diary....

I go thru stages of obsession with stuff, lip gloss, sour patch kids, flip flops, glittery tank tops, sex toys, ipods, boy shorts and power drinks.  I just really find something I like and I just go with it. But sometimes it just sticks with me.

I  have a huge obsession with porn. I always make jokes, I use it as a learning tool. No matter how good you are in bed you can learn to be better. What one guy will think is very hot the next guy will think it's not.  I often found I dirty talk more in bed if they do, it's odd how a new partner can sexual add to or repress your needs or desires. The two of you start to build a sex life together.  Sometimes your wants and  fantasy don't match each other. With each sexual partner it's like a new adventure

I am not saying you need to run out  and screw the world. But you do need to find the ride that best fits your needs.

Get out there and find the ride, sometimes you must be this big to go on this ride comes in handy !!

Happy Weekend-- Kat

Dear Diary....

 

Well I am shocked, just very shocked..

I am almost speechless and for a phone girl, that is pretty hard to do. I usually have so much to say !!

Lately my friends and I have been talking about how many sexual partners each of us had over the years. I am just floored that the numbers are lower compared to mine.

Mine was not the highest of my group of friends. BUT WOW.. I was shocked maybe cause I thought I was  average for my group of friends.  But I was on the middle to high group. I had more sex them most of my friends.

At first, I was like did we not all go to the same college?, My god what happen did you strike out every time we went to the same events.  Did you not hook up when we just to Vegas last time. I must have missed something I just swear to god I thought you might all be more active.

So I leave you with this, maybe your friends are not having as much sex as you. Maybe you just think your friends are getting laid. But I guess you have no idea what happens behind closed doors.

Happy Hump Day --Kat ox

 

Dear Diary..

I hate when a guy starts reminding me of Mc Donald's. I know it's so bad for me, But I just can't get enough.

I tell myself to stay away, but it only lasts so long then I pounce on it like a fat kid on chocolate cake. Something about guys who know how to push my buttons.  I feast on it like a happy meal.

When I am eating and drinking at places and I know guys are watching. My mouth is for more then just dirty talk.  I use my tongue and mouth in every bite. I eat very slow and tasting food off my fingers.  I look right at them with every bite and sexy swallow of my cocktails.

I saw this miserable married guy at the table next to me the other night.  Man did I give him something to think about it.  I saw him put a napkin in his lap to cover it up.  I was just turned on knowing he wanted more.  I am sure his wife was wondering why he was so happy at dinner.   If she only knew !

Sometimes it's feast or famine--  Have a good week !

K oxox

Dear Diary,

So you are feeling a little mad or just crazed. There is such a thing as playful rough sex without going to the hospital. I for one like a little aggressive sex.  Give yourself a full mind and body work out.

Toss your partner around, pull some hair, slap that ass and just make yourself feel it.  Nothing more exhilarating then just going for and begging for satisfaction.  You really can make this fun or just fast furious fuck fest.

I always hear people say they use a safe word during sex in case someone wants to stop.   Trust me If I was not having a good time.  My partner would not need a safe word. He would never get laid again if he can't tell how I am reacting to pleasure and pain.

I'm so ready for the weekend -- Bring it on !

Love Kat ox

Dear Diary...

I'm loving the fall weather, but I suffering from a summer hangover. My tan is fading and flip flops are all packed up.

At least it's time to unpack all my boots. Something about my boots brings out the forceful diva kitty in me.

Just the sound of the zipper pulling it up to my knee. It just empowers me. I can push him on his back to submit to my will. I love just slightly pushing my boot in his upper thigh making him beg for more.

Who needs Halloween when my boots are made for more then waking
 

Happy Friday

 

 

 

Dear Diary...

 

I am reading the book called "The Bad Girl's Guide to getting what you want" I don't really need the book. I know how to get what I want. But seriously it's a fun book.

My favorite line so far is "Being a girl is your ice cream sundae - Being a bad girl is the cherry on top"

I had girl's night out recently and nothing brings out secrets like a few bottles of red wine.

One of my girls said she loved the rabbit vibrator. The next day I felt so bad not telling her about the Hitachi magic wand.

So today I sent her one in the mail with a card telling her to retire the rabbit. This will give her what she really needs.

So I am slightly addicted still to my new Hitachi wand. But I have to admit I wish it had a stronger motor like maybe a lawn mower.

Well I'm happy - But always wanting more that's why I'm the cherry on top of that sundae.

Happy Hump Day  oxox   

 Dear Diary...

I think people are often mistaken that being open about your sexuality means your out fucking around every night.  I hate to disappoint you but it just means I am comfortable with myself.

In owning a phone sex company I've heard endless amounts of callers always looking for ways to express their sexual interest.  It's never easy to have sexual freedom and express yourself.  Just like others everyone worries about being judged.

Something about saying you would like a spanking or you crave being bent over when having sex. It just gives me a pep in my steps and puts me in a good mood.

Even if I'm sexy, I still makes guys work just as hard to bend me over the kitchen table. I'm just a cock tease in the meantime.

Happy Hump Day  oxox

 

Dear Diary, 

It only takes me a few minutes to decide to have sex with someone, It only takes me seconds to change my mind. It's just that simple. I am easily turned on and just as easily turned off.

Maybe because I am very good at communicating. I am easily turned off by a guy who can't carry an every day conversation. If you can't talk to me outside of the bedroom, how can you talk to me in the bedroom.

The art of sex is just as important to me as the words he uses to get my panties down. Once you get my wet panties down finds ways to me tick and I'm then always just wanting more

Happy Hump Day ~~  Love Kat ox

Dear Diary,

After watching the television show The Bachelorette last night I absolutely was bored to death.

If I was the bachelorette  I'd change the show and give out cocktails instead of roses to the guys. I also could eliminate a lot of guys with just one kiss. If the don't melt my panties I'd probably will boot you. I'd also give guys a real reason to cry when they get cut I'd wear lingerie all the time.

Something about the show makes you want to believe in finding a relationship. But now I just wanna make the show more scandalous

Thank god it's hump day I got spice things up tonight.

oxoox- K 

Dear Diary...

Still in a cast, but now I'm rocking it like a super model. This should be my last week. I've gotten pretty handy with one hand.  Who knew I'd be so resourceful  ? (if you know what I mean)

I'm so in mood for March Madness. It brings out my inner sassy cat. I am feeling invincible so I better start working on my brackets tonight.

I find it's sorta humorous it's steak and blow job day. I'd probably deserve the steak more then him for my blow job skills. Who really needs Valentines Day??

So enjoy it --Happy Hump day

Dear Diary...

Dam the Summer weather came on with a bang, it got hotter then hell for a few days. I found the best t-shirt for the summer-- It's baby pink with the words "handle your scandal" I think this just gives me the excuse to get in trouble now. I might have to find some more cute funny shirts to wear out and stir up my summer.

I saw this lengthy porn clip of the weekend and I have been debating it in my mind. It's not the first time I've seen this in porn. It was entirely porn of fisting and fingering compilation. I for one have never been fisted. I am not closed to it. but honestly I think I find fingers to be much hotter. If you get me with your fingers you might even win my heart over.

Happy Hump Day to you all - but I be happier with happy fingered all day.

Love Kit ox